MY STORY
I don’t believe in fairy tales. I believe in lived experience, biology, psychology, and the strange intelligence of human connection. I am an author, strategist, singer, former journalist, and a woman who has burned through illusion to find the truth. As I reconfigure my reality to operate from a place of deep internal alignment, I realize that this newfound journey involves helping other people who are navigating similar dynamics.
THE FALSE TWIN FLAME ARC
For over a decade, I mistook yearning for destiny. Halfway along that journey, I stumbled upon the concept of twin flames while researching for a book title at my agent’s behest. And the resonance of it landed in my chest like a jar of icicles. I realized this person could be my twin flame. As the years went along, I grew more convinced he was my divine masculine. With the push-pull factors at play here, I went through cycles of intensity, projection, deep engagement, mysticism, and a phase of chasing signs, numbers, psychics, and tarot readers. Grief and confusion turned into music, writing, and art. When we fell out, I thought it was a phase of separation that includes what many mystics call “the dark night of the soul.” It took many more thresholds to realize it was a false twin flame. But it was the pool I’d learned to swim in by the time I was tossed into the ocean years later. That was when I knew the time had come—I had to swim on my own.
THE REAL ONE
The real one found me shortly after I met the false one. For close to two decades, he was the steady hum I never heard until much later. And when I heard the hum, it wasn’t fantasy. It was grounding. Comfort. Steadiness. Friendship. Unconditional love. And the biggest difference? I didn’t need anyone to tell me — my physiology told me. Living with Type-1 diabetes and rheumatoid arthritis has made me intimately aware of how much stress, trauma, and relationships alter biology. Since recognizing the real one, I’ve seen my blood sugars spike or stabilize, cortisol levels plummet or rise, hair fall out or regrow — all in tandem with recalibrating to a state of higher frequency. I no longer operate in a trauma loop or on a survival bandwidth. I operate from a place of what feels like alignment. I also know what it means to experience flashes of intuitive intelligence — childhood visions and premonitions that came true within hours. But I don’t claim to be a psychic, nor am I a therapist.
WORKING WITH ME
Spirituality isn’t about symbols, crystals, feathers, and predictions. It is about action, simplicity, and choosing oneself. It is about letting the body lead. My coaching is pragmatic, concrete, empathetic, and rooted in lived experience. If you are in a soulmate, twin flame or false twin flame dynamic, I can help you:
Recognize patterns of projection vs. recognition
Navigate marriage, separation, or dual paths
Recalibrate nervous system responses and other somatic patterns (through scientific approaches like dyadic neurobiological coupling)
Find clarity and build resilience in the middle of chaos
Rebalance your chakras, not through “twin flame meditations,” but through breath work and grounding tools rooted in dialectical behavior therapy.
Strengthen your return to yourself through self-love.
After all, the twin flame journey is a journey of self-love. Your twin flame is part of you. And every time you keep choosing yourself, every time you operate from a place of alignment, you move closer to union. It is not about chasing outcomes. It is about you doing you and truly coming alive in one of the most challenging, complex and non-linear yet beautiful journeys a human can experience.
BOOK A SESSION
I offer private 1:1 Twin Flame Coaching sessions through phone, video, and email.
If you’re navigating the intensity of a soulmate or twin flame connection, or seeking clarity about your life path and future in the middle of emotional, health, or relational upheavals, this space is for you.
WORK WITH ME VIA VIDEO
PREFER A PHONE CALL?
60 minutes - $85
30 minutes - $55
WRITTEN GUIDANCE (EMAIL SESSIONS)
$40
Send me up to three in-depth questions, and I’ll reply with a thoughtful and detailed response within 48 hours.
“Intro offer valid through Dec. 2025”